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How To Achieve The Life You Want and Deserve

Part 3 of 3 – Achieve: How You ACTUALLY Achieve Your Dreams
Episode Summary:
In this episode, which is the final part of a 3-part special, you will discover:
* Why people get to the very brink of greatness , but never quite make it.
* The two elements required to ACTUALLY achieve success
* Four action steps you can start taking today, to begin your journey towards the life you want and deserve.

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Episode Transcript:

“I believe that this is a great time to remind you…”

that you have this wonderful opportunity to achieve all of your dreams and live a more rewarding, adventurous and fulfilling life.
But not only that, I also believe you’re going to take that opportunity.
And the reason I say that is, if you’ve listened to the previous two episodes and you’ve already started  doing the strategies I’ve shared with you…
So you’ve started to think about what your dream life would look like and what your life purpose is.
And you have already started creating your memes and putting them in your dream life video.
Then I believe you’re ALREADY in the top 1% of the worlds population.
Because, sadly, most people never take the time to even think about what they want to achieve in life.
Most people aren’t living their life… they’re coping with their life.
And not only should you be feeling proud of yourself for coming this far… you should also be tingling with excitement.
Because you are on the very brink of achieving great things in your life.
You’re on the very brink of discovering talents, that you never even knew you had!
You’re on the very brink of living a more passionate, fulfilled, rewarding, balanced and joyful life.
You’re on the very brink of having full clarity of whom you are as a person, what you stand for and what you’re going to achieve in life.
But you’ve got to keep going, you’re not quite there yet.
Many people get themselves to the very brink of greatness , but they never quite make it.
Many people read personal development books, get all fired up – have loads of great ideas and then… well, it never quite happens.
And a few years pass and they get that itch again.
They have the urge to better themselves. So they may read another personal development book, or maybe listen to a few podcasts… they may even invest in an audio program. And they get all motivated again, more ideas flow out of them and then… once again, it never quite happens.
Then more years pass and the urge is back.
This time they mean it…
they’re not getting any younger, times running out if they’re going to realise their full potential.
They’re now serious, so as well as the latest book, they also go to a weekend long seminar. They may even get themselves a life coach.
They have never been more motivated than this…
this time it IS going to happen.
They’re going to take on the world and they’re not going to stop until they accomplish what they were born to do.
But, it never quite works out that way.
Their enthusiasm and determination fades away and that’s the last time they try.
So what’s missing? Why do so many get right to very the brink of greatness, but so few actually achieve it?
Well, the answer is this…                                       
Time and action.
Most people get to the very brink of achieving what they want to achieve in life, but they don’t make it because – deep down – they never believed they were capable of  making it.
They never took the TIME to work on themselves and their belief system.
Grant J Marsh, The Super Now Wow Show, How To Achieve The Life You Want and Deserve Part #3
They never truly believed they could achieve what they wanted to. And because they  never believed they could, they never had enough motivation to take the action they needed to succeed.
Many don’t like that answer, but it’s true.
You see, nobody wants to give anything any time today. They want everything immediately. There’s a growing culture of impatience and people want instant satisfaction.
If someone wants to lose weight, they will not buy the book titled:
‘How to change your diet: Exercise more often and gradually become your ideal weight, for your body shape and age, and live a healthier, longer life, that will benefit you and your loved ones’.
No, that won’t buy that one.
Instead they’ll pick the book with the title:
‘How to lose 24 pounds in a week’, with the sub headline…
‘…and you can still eat chocolate and drink wine!’
People are naturally, and understandably, attracted to the quick and easy promise of results.
And listen, I’m all for shortening the learning curve as much as possible.
That’s why I do this show and I’m talking to you now.
You know it’s took me six years, over £50,000 worth of education and, I guess probably around a thousand hours of studying to get to this stage.
And I’m now sharing with you everything I’ve learned, and what I know works, so you don’t have to spend that much time and money trying to figure all this out for yourself.
And that’s why I recorded a free video training series, to complement these episodes.
Because, if you’re listening to this now and thinking, “yes, it’s now my time to start taking some action.”
And you want to receive more training than this show can provide, I wanted to have the resources there, ready for you. Why? Because I want to help you and shorten your learning curve.
So, although I can shorten the time it takes for you, there’s no one day fix for changing your limiting beliefs.
You’re going to need patience.
So gift yourself time, but you’re also going to have to take action.
Because the more you watch your dream life video and the more you start believing you’re going to achieve your dreams and fulfill your life purpose – then the more ideas you’re going to have.
You’ll start becoming aware of opportunities, you’ll start becoming aware of what you need to do and what you need to learn.
But, as you become aware of what you need to do, you do need to take action and actually do it.
Because this method is not law of attraction.
You can’t just imagine what you want from life and then it magically manifests itself. Believe me, I’ve tried it.
This is the Law of Reality.
As your beliefs start to grow, you start creating a new reality for you. A new reality of what you can achieve and the what you’re capable of.
And within your new reality you’ll have new ideas, see new opportunities, have a new awareness and a new-found confidence in yourself that you can achieve what you want to achieve.
Grant J Marsh, The Super Now Wow Show, How To Achieve The Life You Want and Deserve Part #3
Your job then is to start moving, start taking action, start getting things done.
But you continue to watch your dream life video, your beliefs continue to grow to an even higher level and this creates another new reality for you.
And within your new, even more advanced reality, you’ll have even greater ideas, have even more opportunities and even a higher sense of awareness.
And this method just builds and builds and builds.
But for it to build, you need to take action.
The process happens like this:
Grow your beliefs, which will give you new ideas and opportunities
Take action on those new ideas and opportunities
This action will give you greater belief in yourself, which will provide you with even greater ideas and greater opportunities
Take action on those and the upward cycle continues.
And the great news is you’re now motivated to take the action.
Because now you’re actually working towards YOUR dreams and YOUR life purpose.
And if that doesn’t motivate you enough to get going and to start taking action today, then you need to have another look at your dreams. You need to rethink your life purpose. Because if you’re not motivated to try to fulfill your life purpose and to start pursuing your dreams – well, you just haven’t found the right dreams and life purpose yet.
Ok, so if you’re now willing to commit to this and trust this process, here are four action steps you can start applying today, to start you off on your journey towards the life you want and deserve.
Action Step 1
Watch your dream life video every day and listen to the soundtrack as much as possible.
I keep repeating it and repeating it – why, well because repetition works. That’s why you’ve got to stick with this. This is your life.
And the next twelve months are going to be crucial for you.
And I really would like you to take a moment and think about this.
Where will you be this time next year?
Because, you know, most people lives hardly change. Year after year after year.
They live their lives in their bubble of their beliefs, going through life in an almost hypnotic state.
The same experiences most years, the same successes most years, the same mistakes most years.
And they end up on this monotonous cycle of just living for the weekends.
Spending half their year willing the weeks away to their annual holiday and the other half of their year willing the weeks away to Christmas.
And listen, I love holidays  – I love Christmas…
but lets fill up the remaining 50 weeks of your life with growth and happiness and fulfilment.
I know I’m challenging you, but it’s only because I want you to achieve everything you want to achieve in life.
It’s only because I don’t want you waking up on your 80th, 90th or 100th birthday with regret, wishing  you would have pursued your dreams when I you were younger.”
I don’t want you waking up this time next year, in the same situation you’re in now, wishing you would have done more over the previous 12 months.
And I know this dream trust achieve method works.
But ok, I understand you don’t know me. Why should you listen to me?
Grant J Marsh, The Super Now Wow Show, How To Achieve The Life You Want and Deserve Part #3
Grant J Marsh, The Super Now Wow Show, How To Achieve The Life You Want and Deserve Part #3
Grant J Marsh, The Super Now Wow Show, How To Achieve The Life You Want and Deserve Part #3
And What if I’m wrong?
What if I’m talking a load of rubbish and you apply this method for an entire year and nothing changes?
Ok, well you would have spent some time watching your dream life video. You would have spent some time thinking about what you actually want to achieve in your life.
And that’s the worse case scenario!
But now…
What if I’m right?
It will change your life. It’s down to you, but surely it’s got to be worth a go?
Surely?
OK, so that’s step 1. Watch your dream life video daily and listen to the soundtrack of your video as regularly as possible.
Action Step 2.
Start writing your ideas down and Start Learning
As you watch your video, you’ll start getting more and more ideas on how you might achieve your dreams. So when they come, right your ideas down.
No matter how vague they are, no matter how crazy they seem. Write them down. You’ve got to start capturing your thoughts and ideas, as your beliefs start to change.
Let me give you a quick example.
One of your dreams may start as something really vague, like I want to start my own business.
Then as you watch your dream life video, again and again – you start getting the idea that you would love to start a business selling fishing equipment, because your passionate about fishing. Or, you would love to start a business in fashion, or you would love to start up a business finding lost dogs.. whatever it is for you.
Well, the first thing you need to do is write the idea down – before you kill it.
Because, be honest how many times in the past have you had ideas like that and you immediately start planning how you’re going to achieve it.
And then what happens?
Well, you start thinking:
“I can’t do this, I can’t do that. Or, I don’t know how to do that and I don’t have the time or money anyway… so that was a stupid idea!”
And with in a space of 5 minutes flat, you’ve destroyed the idea that may have changed your life!
So, the first part is to get your idea on to paper…
or into your phone, before you talk yourself out of it and your idea is lost forever.
The second part is to then start thinking about your idea…
but without destroying it. And you do that by asking yourself questions.
So, to continue with the dream of starting a business example.
Some of the questions you may start thinking about are:
“How do I launch a website? How do I market my product or service? Am I better being self-employed, or become incorporated?” “What about VAT and bank accounts?…”
Once again, get your questions written down. It always looks less complicated, less daunting when you have those questions out of your mind and on to paper.
Then once you have all your questions written down, go through them and for each of your questions that comes under the category of:
I don’t need to know the answer to that, because I know someone who could either quickly tell me what I need to know, or do it for me.
Then you mark all those question with the letter ‘A’. And you don’t have to worry about any of those questions any more.
Grant J Marsh, The Super Now Wow Show, How To Achieve The Life You Want and Deserve Part #3
For the questions you have remaining, if any of them fall into the category of:
It would be nice for you to know how to do in the future, but it’s not a critical step you need to take to start the business.
Then you mark those questions with the letter ‘B’. And you can forget about those questions as well, for now.
And any remaining questions you have, should fall into the category of:
I want to learn how to do it and I need to learn how to do it, if I want to start my business.
And you mark those questions with the letter ‘C’.
Your job then is to take action and start learning the answers to any ‘C’ questions you have on your list.
And I know you’re busy.
But if you want your dream badly enough, you’ll find the time.
And you can start with audio-books, or podcasts, that you can listen to in the car, or when you’re exercising. They may not give you all the answers you’re looking for – but they’re a great place to start.
OK, so that’s action step 2. Capture your thought and ideas on to paper and start learning the skills and gaining the knowledge that you need to succeed.
Action Step 3
When deciding on what action to take, always keep your life purpose in mind. Is your plan moving you towards your overall life purpose, or not. Is it moving you towards achieving any of your dreams or not?
And if it’s not – don’t do it.
Now, of course, to start with you’re going to have activities and commitments in your life that are not moving you towards your dreams or life purpose.
It’s quite possible that you’re currently in full-time employment and that isn’t moving you towards any of your dreams.
And maybe you can’t just leave your job and set up your dream business tomorrow.
Because the mortgage still needs to be paid, bills still need to be paid and food still needs to be paid for.
And that’s fine.
It comes back to time again.
It will take time for you change direction and start heading towards your dreams.
Don’t worry about how you’re going to achieve everything you want to achieve at the  moment. Just keep watching your dream video until you TRUST that you will.
And you know, that’s the problem I have with goal setting. With goal setting, you’re expected to know immediately how you’re going to achieve and by when.
So you have a dream and then write it down as a goal.
You then look at your situation today and immediately try to plan out how you’re going to achieve it.
And it often seems impossible, or too much of a challenge, or too scary and you give up on it.
Believe and trust that you will have your dream first. The ideas, opportunities, education, confidence and determination follows.
Believe first, achieve second. Always.
And also, never look at your current circumstances and use that as an excuse not to start this dream trust achieve method.
It doesn’t matter where you happen to be in life now.
Grant J Marsh, Inspirational Quotes, The Super Now Wow Show, How To Achieve The Life You Want and Deserve Part #3
Just trust the process. Don’t worry how things are going to work out. Just trust they will.
Ok, so that’s step 3 – always make sure your plans and actions are moving you towards your dreams or your life purpose.
Action Step #4 – Never – Never – Give Up
Make a commitment to yourself, I won’t give up on my dreams and my purpose in life.
And it’s your life purpose that’s the critical part in all this.
Wonderful homes, wealth and fantastic holidays are all great dreams to have.
But, during your toughest times, during  your biggest failures – they’re not enough to keep you going.
It’s your life purpose that will keep you going.
And I’ll explain why.
The nice houses, cars, holidays, golf membership, fancy restaurants and so on are all wonderful – life should be enjoyed to the full. But these are items that you aim for.
You want a new car, you find out the cost and you save up and you aim for it.
You want to go on a cruise, you choose where in the world you want to go, you price it up and you aim for it.
But your life purpose drives you. It drives you through life.
It’s not something you aim for… it is you, it’s part of you.
It’s your ‘WHY’
And do you know why most people, who have come this far, give up?
It’s because they never really discovered their ‘why’.
And look, I believe at the highest level – everyone’s life purpose is to affect others.
Now, you may argue that a small minority of people take joy from negatively affecting others. But, at the highest, level I believe our life purpose – the one thing that would give us the greatest satisfaction…
is to have a positively impact on other peoples lives.
Now that may be through your work that brings pleasure to people. It maybe through education, it maybe through helping animals. It maybe through art, it maybe through supporting charities. It maybe through building up your business and selling it, so you can support your family and provide a better future for them.
There’s thousands and thousands of different ways we can impact others lives.
But I bet if you look at your life purpose, your WHY, you’ll see that actually, it boils down to you positively affecting someone’s life.
And that’s what you keep in mind throughout your entire journey in life.
Never question, never lose sight of it.
You wouldn’t start a car journey, to see your dying grandmother who is in a hospital 300 miles away, and then give up because there was a traffic jam on the way. Or, there was a diversion. Or if your car broke down, or of you run out of petrol.
No, nothing would stop you from getting there – even if the route there was different from you originally thought.
You see, I love doing this podcast.
But if it hadn’t been successful, or if it’s not as successful in the future – then, I’m not going to give up on my life purpose.
My ‘WHY’ was never to host a podcast. My purpose in life is to help 1 million people achieve what they want to achieve.
This podcast was just one idea, one route, out of thousands to help me achieve that.
So never lose sight of your purpose.
If you try something and it doesn’t work, well then find a new route. You haven’t failed.
Honestly, 95% of my entire life doesn’t work.
But do you know my secret…
I’m just focused on helping those 1 million people.
And I refuse to let my mistakes, or the attempts I’ve made that haven’t worked as well as I would have hoped, stop me from helping them.
Because, honestly, I would never forgive myself.
And I know you’ll do the same, I can just sense it.
Yes you’re going to experience setbacks, yes you’re going to have periods in your life when bad things will happen, yes you’re going to have people slag you off and try to knock you down or hold you back.
But, none of it… none of it… will stop you…
achieving what you want to achieve
Nothing will stop you from taking constant action to change your reality and to achieve your dreams.
Nothing will stop you from fulfilling your life purpose and the positive impact on other peoples lives that will bring.
And no, of course you don’t know exactly how to get there yet. But you TRUST that you will.
And you will get there, I know you will.
Because you now have what most the world doesn’t have.
You have purpose. You know your WHY.
So take action today and start living a wonderful, happy, exciting and fulfilled life you want and deserve.
Because this week, these days, this now is going to pass anyway. So why not make this ‘NOW’ a super ‘NOW’? A super ‘NOW’ that makes you go ‘WOW’!

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